Her two nights out were pretty early and uneventful. She limited herself to one glass of wine so she could drive herself home.
Last night, we met L and J out for dinner since our daughter was staying overnight at their house, and we live about half an hour apart.
The kids sat together at the far end of the table while the four of us had dinner and discussed our upcoming vacation we're taking together this summer.
The house we're renting is near a large lake, so Rebecca thought it would be fun to rent a boat and teach the kids to waterski.
She wanted to run this by L and J, but her lead-in allowed for A LOT of interpretation.
"We were thinking of trying something new this year with you guys and wanted to run it by you"
" We wanted to see if you would be okay trying it."
"something we haven't done before that could be fun"
All the while, she hadn't mentioned what it was she was thinking of, and I could see J's gears grinding in his head.
Rebecca, in her usual lovely innocence had no idea what she sounded like, so I had to jump in and tell her to tell them what she had in mind, because I could tell that J was getting his hopes up.
When I said that, she said "we were thinking of renting a boat". About the same time he jokingly said "wife swap".
I was laughing as I welcomed him to my world, where she can say things to get my mind wandering while all the time meaning something completely innocent.
J was sitting next to me, and Rebecca didn't know what he said until I told her when we got home. Of course she was "shocked". I just laughed it all off.
You just know that J will be whacking himself raw imagining what could have been!
ReplyDeleteI am 49, been married for almost 23 years, and for the past 10 or so I started to develop similar kinks as you. I have really struggled, most of my marriage with poor communication, and have done some stuff that I am not proud of. I wish I had/have the level of communication you have with your wife. Having said that, after spending some time reading all of your blog, I thought I would comment on my thoughts.
ReplyDeleteFirst, let me say I am glad you still have a Marriage after finding out about R's affair. I have to say though that you got exactly what you deserved, as it was your handy-work that started it. A true hotwife dates other men for sex, not intimacy. R was unwilling to fit that mold, so you pushed her into developing intimacy, which would develop a mindset that R could actually sleep with another man. She hid this from u b/c there was intimacy, and didn't want it to stop.
You my friend opened Pandora's box, when you pushed "fantasy" into reality. You are so incredibly lucky to have such a caring, beautiful and horny wife. I'm lucky if I get laid once per month (on her terms). Stop obsessing about sex, and enjoy your family while you have it, b/c in a blink of an eye, they will be gone, and all you will have is regrets, instead of memories, like me.
Hmmm, I have been reading your blog now for quite sometime, and have posted a reply or two as to my interest in your blog. It seems to me that your input and feedback have been going dry. Starting to wonder about your authenticity as to what you post. It is okay because as we grow we change and it seems that your day to day life and activities do not coexist such that they did in times past. I do appreciate your wants and desires as I find myself in the same situation as you. The last anonymous comment made a lot of sense I think. I know it has to be hard given your relationship closeness and your desires. I guess you realize that it puts her in a peculiar spot as she doesn't seem to bite to hard on your desires. Maybe she wonders if in fact the two of you acted on it you might fall apart instead of together in the aftermath. I believe you will strive a lifetime and never get what you envision with your wife. It's a catch 22. Oh well, seems very minor league and I am no one of significance other than being personally successful and married to a beautiful hot woman for 16 years whom is a little more open to the idea of exploring. Guess it is just that in black and white;" Intimate Thoughts".........Kind of uplifting for her I am sure....
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Any update ?
ReplyDeleteare you ok? any update?
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